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Free Tip: Getting Your Ex To Return Calls
Posted: Sep 1, 2008
Important Note: Please keep in mind that the following advice is just a small portion of a larger plan in The Magic Of Making Up. If you try this without knowing the next step you may cause irreversible damage to your chances of ever getting back together with your ex.
One of the more frequently asked questions is how to get an ex to return calls. You may have parted on hostile terms leaving you in unwelcome territory.
A common response is to plead - calling insessantly - two, three, four times a day. Or you may have tried to trick them by declaring your phone call an emergency.
Rarely do these approaches work. Often, it pushes your ex further away portraying you as needy and desperate.
So how do you get an ex to return your calls?
By using vanity and human psychology to your advantage.
Two of the more powerful forces in the human mind are curiosity and self interest. When you leave a message that pleads or declares an emergency you set up a negative expectation. Their subconscious associates the returning call to be unpleasant.
If you set up the returning call as a pleasant, self serving communication it will be difficult for them to resist. It's human nature.
A sample message would be along the lines of:
Hi, John. It's Sara. I just wanted to tell you that I appreciate what you did for me. I wasn't expecting that. I'd like to thank you in person so give me a call when you get a chance.
John thinks he did something good and will be rewarded, but he doesn't know what he did. It will drive him crazy until he finds out why you want to thank him.
It's a perfect setup, but it's important to create a plausible reason for the call. It has to be believable or your ex will feel fooled, creating a greater obstacle to overcome.
The Magic Of Making Up has a complete step-by-step guide to getting your ex back. You'll also be given the opportunity to receive personal advice from the author, TW Jackson.
